>>154049the real root of the problem is the moral philosophy that "youth is innocence".
Kids are pathologosed for worldly instincts.
Adults mock and patronise kids for being innocent but then get offended by when they display precocious traits.
"Let kids be kids because childhood is short".
People think childhood is the goal of life now rather than some phase to grow out of.
Most of our childrearing is nine tenths about smothering and psychological castration.